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Where Conflict Comes From

Where Conflict Comes From

Conflict means a disagreement or tension between people that affects work or relationships. In teams where Japanese, Indonesian, Vietnamese, Filipino, Nepali and other workers work together, some conflict is normal. It is not a sign that the team is bad. What matters is noticing it early and handling it well.

Common sources in multicultural teams

SourceWhat it can look like
Communication styleJapanese communication is often high-context: much of the meaning is in the situation, the tone and even silence. 「ちょっと難しいですね」 ("That is a little difficult") often means "no". A worker who expects a direct answer may misunderstand.
本音と建前 (honne to tatemae)Honne is what a person really feels; tatemae is what is appropriate to say in public. A colleague may smile and agree in a meeting but think differently in private.
TimeArriving exactly on time, or a little early, is expected in Japan. Different habits about time can quickly cause irritation.
Religion and lifestylePrayer times, fasting during Ramadan, halal food or drinking parties can lead to misunderstandings if they are not explained.
WorkloadA feeling that some people get easier tasks, or more or less overtime, than others.
Seniority: 先輩後輩 (senpai–kouhai)Seniors (senpai) expect respect and may give orders; juniors (kouhai) are expected to follow and learn. Age and length of service can matter more than nationality.
Groups within the teamWorkers from the same country may stay together and speak their own language, which can make others feel left out.

Early signs of conflict

  • People stop greeting each other or avoid eye contact.
  • Information is not shared; someone "forgets" to pass on an instruction.
  • Complaints are made behind someone's back or in group chats.
  • Small mistakes increase, or someone suddenly becomes quiet or looks tired.
  • Jokes about a nationality or religion become more frequent.

When you see these signs, do not wait for a big argument. A short, friendly conversation early can prevent weeks of tension.

Look at the situation, not the person

Many conflicts are caused not by bad people but by different expectations. Before you decide that someone is rude or lazy, ask yourself: "Could this be a difference in culture, language or information?"

For example, a Japanese leader who rarely praises may not be unhappy; in many Japanese workplaces, saying nothing can mean "no problem". An Indonesian worker who smiles while being corrected may not be disrespectful; smiling can be a way to hide embarrassment. When both sides know these differences, many conflicts never start.

Common sources of conflict in Indonesian–Japanese and other multicultural teams, and the early signs to watch for.

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